Ladkiya !! Is blog ko parne ke baad kbhi bhi kisi bhi ladki se baate krne me mushkil nhi hogi ye to waada hai aap se.. so let's begin
!!! Kya tum jalte ho jab wo kisi or se baat krti hai kya fatti hai tumhari dominant banna chahte ho taake tumhari wo har baat sune control karna chahte ho uski life taake tumhare alawa kisi or ko kbhi pasand naa kre kisi or se kabhi dosti naa kre (Faltu insan ho tum)
Tumhe ye chiz samjhni zaruri hai ke tum kabhi nhi chaahoge ke koi tumhari life me tumhari privacy ko tumko control kre ya tumhari aazadi ko control kre or same tarike se tumhe bhi samjhne ki zarurat hai ke ladki bhi insan hai or uski aazadi uski privacy uska haq hai birth ryt hai jo usko milna chiye or tum socho ki tum kon ho usko rokne ke liye tumhe ek chiz samjhne ki zarurat hai ki tum sochte ho na ki dominant ese ban jaau yaa fir merko insecurity mtlb merko insecurity hori hai to merko iska behaviour control krna hai me chahta nhi ye dusro se baat kre mujhe galat feel hota hai tum ho hi faltu insan yaar tumhe galat nhi lagega to kya hoga or agar tum itne kamzor ho ki tum khud ko na ni bol skte mtlb kya hai is baat ka tum dusre insan ko naa bol rhe ho tum ladki ko naa bol rahe ho nhi tu isse nhi milegi nhi ye tere bhai jesa ho yaa jo bhi ho tu isse nhi milegi tu isse baat nHi kregi tu raat ko itti bje bahr nhi jaayegi tu ladkiyo jesa bahar nhi jaayegi tum jo bhi karne ki koshish krre ho na jo tumhare old generation ke logo ne sikhaya hoga yaa tum khud bhi purane logo jesa sochte ho to wo tumhare liye hamesha backfire karega kyuki tum us insan ko dar se control karne ki koshish kr rhe ho kyuki tum khud ko mana nhi kr skte to tum usko control kr rhe ho agar tum khud ko mana karna sikho to jo insan dar ke maare tumhari sunta hai na jo wo chahta nhi hai lekin dar ki wajh se sunta hai yaa tum naaraz hote ho uski wjh se sunta hai yaa fir tumhare bich ladai ho jaaye or prblm ho uski wajh se sunta hai dekhna wo tumhari khud sunna chahega or wo isliye sunna chahega kyuki tumhe mahaan insan uski life me koi nhi mahan matlb ki wo respect krte hai tumhe tumhe mante hai wo or wo sochte hai ki kaash puri dunia is bande jesi hoti yaa kaash saare bande ese hote ya kaash meri female dost esi hoti yaa kaash mere ladke dost ese hotr wagera wagera wagerah.. kyuki khud ko mana krna aasan nhi hai khud ko mana krna bhut hi mushkil chiz hai kyuki mujhe bhi hota hai jab me kisi ladki ke sath mujhe time spend krna pasand aata hai mujhe bhi lagta hai yar aaj raat itna man kr rha hai uske sath letne ka uske baal sunghne ka mujhe itna man kr rha hai lekin wo busy hai usko apne dost ki birthday party me jana hai yaa khi jaana hai fir to tum usko control krna chahoge usko mana kroge ki nhi tu nhi jaayegi kyuki tum use sirf khud ke liye chahte ho de ni sakte dunia ko apni khushi to kya krte ho tum itna accha ban jaao bhenchod ki kisi or ka birthday bhi tumhare ghr pr hi manaya jaaye kyuki sab chahte hai ki tum unki life ka hissa hi respect, admiration, inspiration ki wajh se dar ki wajah se nhi thik hai to khud ko mana krna sikho kyuki jab tumhari insecurity aati hai or tum apni insecurity ko naa nhi bol sakte to tum us ladki ko apni life jine se naa bolne ki koshish krte ho correct wo mat kro khud ko mana krna sikhi zyada mushkil hai zyada dard hoga lekin long term me asli jo control hota hai na whi hota hai jab tum khud ko control kr skte ho control or dominant Yourself dusre logo ko nhi apne freind circle ko nhi kisi ko nhi bada banne ki koshish mat kro kyuki jo bada banne ki koshish krta hai na wo kbhi bhi bada nhi hota .
Bina koshish kiye jito zindagi me khud ko control krke kyuki ham sabki chaht hoti hai dunia me logo ko control krne ki ham sab chahte hai yaar ki idhr chal kya rha hai mere dost mere baare me kya baat kr rhe hai ajkl mujhe kuch lag rha hai kuch chalu hai ya fir yaar ye colleg me ye jo couple hai ye kyu hai kaash inka breakup ho jaaye taaki me chance maar saku ham sabko chaht hai ki ham bhagwan ban sake ham sab ko chahat hai lekin wo jo chaht hai na agar tum uske piche bhagoge to wo tunhari kabhi asliyat nhi ban sakegi tum apni chahto ko naa bolo jo tum jaante ho galat hai jo chaht tumhe tabhi milni chiye jab tum uske layak ho us chaht ho jab tum mana krna shuru kroge ((( itna ))) jab tumme self discipline or confidence aa jayega ki jo tum chahte ho na automatically tumhari life tumhe de rahi hai tum ye chahte ho life de rhi hai tum ye chahte ho life de rhi hai ye jo chiz hai ye jo samaan raste hai jispe chalegi zindagi usko time lagta hai aane me or koshish bhi karni padti hai to wo jo zindagi hai na ... Mtlb tum itne acche ho jaate ho na ki tumhe first choice milta hai mtlb tum vip ban jaate ho bina banne ki koshish kiye tum dekhoge log jinko ese hi hath me pakda diya jata hai political status yaa fir koi Vip status vo dekha hai na kese dusre logo ko gandh ki tarah treat krte hai unko lagta hai ham mahaan hai agar wo tab bhi khud ki chaht ko control kar sake na or bole aap kyu mera bag utha rhe ho me khud utha skta hu mere paas 2 hath hai plz aap esa mt kariye us din jo dar ki wajh se log tumhe respect krte hai tumhe sunte hai or tumhe jo nakli feel milti hai ki haa me kuch hu log mera aadar krte hai kyuki me kuch hu to wo dar ke jo karte hai na wo fir asliyat me krna shuru krenge or log to sirf ek chiz hai mera main idea tha aaj ke baare me ye batane ka ki tum log jo ladkiyo ki life control krne ki koshish krte ho ya tumhe jealous lagta hai agr breakup ke baad wo kisi or se baat kr rhi hai ya tumhe wo ladki mili nhi usne tumhe rejct kr diya lekin wo kisi or se baat kr rhi hai to tumse dekha nhi jata aree to mat dekh muskil kya hai itna nhi wo mere class me hai mere colleg me hai roz aati hai mere raste me to rasta badal ek hi raste pe chalne ko mtlb kisne kaha hai terko khud ko mana kro na rasta badal yaa to banade aajkl rasta banana zyada aasan hai rasta badalne se kyuki itne saare log same rasto pr chalre hai ke agr tum khudka banaoge to bahot aage jaaoge khud ka banao or aage jaao to aaj ke liye itna hi i hope aap sab log sab kuch smjh gye ho or ummid krunga aao itne mahaan ban jaaoge na ki life apne aap sab kuch fekegi aap ke upr..
Tumhe ye chiz samjhni zaruri hai ke tum kabhi nhi chaahoge ke koi tumhari life me tumhari privacy ko tumko control kre ya tumhari aazadi ko control kre or same tarike se tumhe bhi samjhne ki zarurat hai ke ladki bhi insan hai or uski aazadi uski privacy uska haq hai birth ryt hai jo usko milna chiye or tum socho ki tum kon ho usko rokne ke liye tumhe ek chiz samjhne ki zarurat hai ki tum sochte ho na ki dominant ese ban jaau yaa fir merko insecurity mtlb merko insecurity hori hai to merko iska behaviour control krna hai me chahta nhi ye dusro se baat kre mujhe galat feel hota hai tum ho hi faltu insan yaar tumhe galat nhi lagega to kya hoga or agar tum itne kamzor ho ki tum khud ko na ni bol skte mtlb kya hai is baat ka tum dusre insan ko naa bol rhe ho tum ladki ko naa bol rahe ho nhi tu isse nhi milegi nhi ye tere bhai jesa ho yaa jo bhi ho tu isse nhi milegi tu isse baat nHi kregi tu raat ko itti bje bahr nhi jaayegi tu ladkiyo jesa bahar nhi jaayegi tum jo bhi karne ki koshish krre ho na jo tumhare old generation ke logo ne sikhaya hoga yaa tum khud bhi purane logo jesa sochte ho to wo tumhare liye hamesha backfire karega kyuki tum us insan ko dar se control karne ki koshish kr rhe ho kyuki tum khud ko mana nhi kr skte to tum usko control kr rhe ho agar tum khud ko mana karna sikho to jo insan dar ke maare tumhari sunta hai na jo wo chahta nhi hai lekin dar ki wajh se sunta hai yaa tum naaraz hote ho uski wjh se sunta hai yaa fir tumhare bich ladai ho jaaye or prblm ho uski wajh se sunta hai dekhna wo tumhari khud sunna chahega or wo isliye sunna chahega kyuki tumhe mahaan insan uski life me koi nhi mahan matlb ki wo respect krte hai tumhe tumhe mante hai wo or wo sochte hai ki kaash puri dunia is bande jesi hoti yaa kaash saare bande ese hote ya kaash meri female dost esi hoti yaa kaash mere ladke dost ese hotr wagera wagera wagerah.. kyuki khud ko mana krna aasan nhi hai khud ko mana krna bhut hi mushkil chiz hai kyuki mujhe bhi hota hai jab me kisi ladki ke sath mujhe time spend krna pasand aata hai mujhe bhi lagta hai yar aaj raat itna man kr rha hai uske sath letne ka uske baal sunghne ka mujhe itna man kr rha hai lekin wo busy hai usko apne dost ki birthday party me jana hai yaa khi jaana hai fir to tum usko control krna chahoge usko mana kroge ki nhi tu nhi jaayegi kyuki tum use sirf khud ke liye chahte ho de ni sakte dunia ko apni khushi to kya krte ho tum itna accha ban jaao bhenchod ki kisi or ka birthday bhi tumhare ghr pr hi manaya jaaye kyuki sab chahte hai ki tum unki life ka hissa hi respect, admiration, inspiration ki wajh se dar ki wajah se nhi thik hai to khud ko mana krna sikho kyuki jab tumhari insecurity aati hai or tum apni insecurity ko naa nhi bol sakte to tum us ladki ko apni life jine se naa bolne ki koshish krte ho correct wo mat kro khud ko mana krna sikhi zyada mushkil hai zyada dard hoga lekin long term me asli jo control hota hai na whi hota hai jab tum khud ko control kr skte ho control or dominant Yourself dusre logo ko nhi apne freind circle ko nhi kisi ko nhi bada banne ki koshish mat kro kyuki jo bada banne ki koshish krta hai na wo kbhi bhi bada nhi hota .
Bina koshish kiye jito zindagi me khud ko control krke kyuki ham sabki chaht hoti hai dunia me logo ko control krne ki ham sab chahte hai yaar ki idhr chal kya rha hai mere dost mere baare me kya baat kr rhe hai ajkl mujhe kuch lag rha hai kuch chalu hai ya fir yaar ye colleg me ye jo couple hai ye kyu hai kaash inka breakup ho jaaye taaki me chance maar saku ham sabko chaht hai ki ham bhagwan ban sake ham sab ko chahat hai lekin wo jo chaht hai na agar tum uske piche bhagoge to wo tunhari kabhi asliyat nhi ban sakegi tum apni chahto ko naa bolo jo tum jaante ho galat hai jo chaht tumhe tabhi milni chiye jab tum uske layak ho us chaht ho jab tum mana krna shuru kroge ((( itna ))) jab tumme self discipline or confidence aa jayega ki jo tum chahte ho na automatically tumhari life tumhe de rahi hai tum ye chahte ho life de rhi hai tum ye chahte ho life de rhi hai ye jo chiz hai ye jo samaan raste hai jispe chalegi zindagi usko time lagta hai aane me or koshish bhi karni padti hai to wo jo zindagi hai na ... Mtlb tum itne acche ho jaate ho na ki tumhe first choice milta hai mtlb tum vip ban jaate ho bina banne ki koshish kiye tum dekhoge log jinko ese hi hath me pakda diya jata hai political status yaa fir koi Vip status vo dekha hai na kese dusre logo ko gandh ki tarah treat krte hai unko lagta hai ham mahaan hai agar wo tab bhi khud ki chaht ko control kar sake na or bole aap kyu mera bag utha rhe ho me khud utha skta hu mere paas 2 hath hai plz aap esa mt kariye us din jo dar ki wajh se log tumhe respect krte hai tumhe sunte hai or tumhe jo nakli feel milti hai ki haa me kuch hu log mera aadar krte hai kyuki me kuch hu to wo dar ke jo karte hai na wo fir asliyat me krna shuru krenge or log to sirf ek chiz hai mera main idea tha aaj ke baare me ye batane ka ki tum log jo ladkiyo ki life control krne ki koshish krte ho ya tumhe jealous lagta hai agr breakup ke baad wo kisi or se baat kr rhi hai ya tumhe wo ladki mili nhi usne tumhe rejct kr diya lekin wo kisi or se baat kr rhi hai to tumse dekha nhi jata aree to mat dekh muskil kya hai itna nhi wo mere class me hai mere colleg me hai roz aati hai mere raste me to rasta badal ek hi raste pe chalne ko mtlb kisne kaha hai terko khud ko mana kro na rasta badal yaa to banade aajkl rasta banana zyada aasan hai rasta badalne se kyuki itne saare log same rasto pr chalre hai ke agr tum khudka banaoge to bahot aage jaaoge khud ka banao or aage jaao to aaj ke liye itna hi i hope aap sab log sab kuch smjh gye ho or ummid krunga aao itne mahaan ban jaaoge na ki life apne aap sab kuch fekegi aap ke upr..
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